(() => { const root = document.getElementById('survival-quiz-root'); if (!root) return; const questions = [ { text: "When there's conflict or tension around you, your first instinct is to...", options: [ { text: "Fix it, mediate, or make everyone feel okay again", role: "peacekeeper" }, { text: "Go quiet and disappear until it passes", role: "invisible" }, { text: "Take control of the situation", role: "achiever" }, { text: "Laugh it off or deflect with humor", role: "performer" } ] }, { text: "Growing up, love or approval often felt like something you had to...", options: [ { text: "Earn by being good, helpful, or successful", role: "achiever" }, { text: "Earn by not being a burden or needing too much", role: "invisible" }, { text: "Earn by keeping the peace and managing others' emotions", role: "peacekeeper" }, { text: "Earn by being entertaining, fun, or interesting", role: "performer" } ] }, { text: "When you're overwhelmed, you're most likely to...", options: [ { text: "Push through and keep going. Rest feels unsafe.", role: "achiever" }, { text: "Withdraw and handle it alone. Asking feels like too much.", role: "invisible" }, { text: "Focus on everyone else's needs instead of your own", role: "peacekeeper" }, { text: "Distract yourself or keep things light on the surface", role: "performer" } ] }, { text: "Your inner critic most often sounds like...", options: [ { text: "\"You're not doing enough. You need to be more.\"", role: "achiever" }, { text: "\"You're too much. You take up too much space.\"", role: "invisible" }, { text: "\"You're selfish if you put yourself first.\"", role: "peacekeeper" }, { text: "\"If people saw the real you, they'd leave.\"", role: "performer" } ] }, { text: "In close relationships, you tend to...", options: [ { text: "Give a lot but struggle to receive or ask for help", role: "peacekeeper" }, { text: "Keep emotional distance. Vulnerability feels risky.", role: "invisible" }, { text: "Link your worth to your achievements or what you provide", role: "achiever" }, { text: "Show a version of yourself you think they'll love most", role: "performer" } ] }, { text: "Rest and stillness feel...", options: [ { text: "Uncomfortable, like I should be doing something", role: "achiever" }, { text: "Okay, but only when I'm truly alone", role: "invisible" }, { text: "Hard. I feel guilty if others need something from me.", role: "peacekeeper" }, { text: "Strange. I'm not sure who I am without an audience.", role: "performer" } ] }, { text: "If someone asked what you actually need right now, your honest answer would be...", options: [ { text: "I don't know. I'm so used to focusing on others.", role: "peacekeeper" }, { text: "I know, but I feel like I shouldn't need it", role: "invisible" }, { text: "To feel like I'm doing enough, and that I am enough", role: "achiever" }, { text: "To feel truly seen without performing or pretending", role: "performer" } ] } ]; const results = { achiever: { name: "The Achiever", description: "You learned early that love and safety came through performance, productivity, and results. You may look capable on the outside while your nervous system stays braced on the inside. Rest can feel unsafe because slowing down once risked approval, connection, or stability.", patterns: ["Chronic overworking", "Rest anxiety", "Perfectionism", "Approval seeking", "Difficulty receiving"], cta: "This pattern can feel so normal that it starts to feel like identity. A Clarity Session can help you separate who you are from what you do." }, peacekeeper: { name: "The Peacekeeper", description: "You became highly attuned to everyone else. You learned to manage the room, soften conflict, and keep yourself small enough for others to stay regulated. Your care runs deep, but it can come at the cost of abandoning yourself.", patterns: ["People pleasing", "Difficulty with conflict", "Emotional caretaking", "Self abandonment", "Chronic guilt"], cta: "If your voice gets lost inside other people's needs, a Clarity Session can help you hear yourself again." }, invisible: { name: "The Invisible One", description: "You learned that safety came through taking up less space. Need less. Ask less. Reveal less. You may appear independent, but underneath it can feel lonely and hard to let yourself be fully known.", patterns: ["Emotional walls", "Hyper independence", "Minimizing needs", "Isolation patterns", "Disconnection"], cta: "This is one of the quietest survival roles, and one of the hardest to carry alone. A Clarity Session gives you space to be fully seen." }, performer: { name: "The Performer", description: "You learned that being magnetic, entertaining, or emotionally compelling kept you connected. You may know how to hold attention, but still fear what happens when you stop performing and simply exist.", patterns: ["Identity confusion", "Validation seeking", "Fear of being found out", "Difficulty being still", "Masks and personas"], cta: "You do not need an act to be loved. A Clarity Session is a place to step out of performance and into honesty." } }; let currentQ = 0; let scores = { achiever: 0, peacekeeper: 0, invisible: 0, performer: 0 }; let lead = { name: '', email: '' }; function clearRoot() { while (root.firstChild) root.removeChild(root.firstChild); } function card() { const el = document.createElement('div'); el.style.maxWidth = '760px'; el.style.margin = '0 auto'; el.style.padding = '28px'; el.style.background = '#1a2744'; el.style.border = '1px solid rgba(201,168,76,0.35)'; el.style.borderRadius = '22px'; el.style.color = 'white'; el.style.fontFamily = 'Arial, sans-serif'; el.style.boxSizing = 'border-box'; return el; } function title(text) { const el = document.createElement('h2'); el.textContent = text; el.style.margin = '0 0 16px 0'; el.style.fontSize = '34px'; el.style.lineHeight = '1.2'; el.style.textAlign = 'center'; el.style.fontFamily = 'Georgia, serif'; return el; } function textEl(text, center = true) { const el = document.createElement('p'); el.textContent = text; el.style.margin = '0 0 16px 0'; el.style.lineHeight = '1.7'; el.style.color = '#d7deef'; el.style.fontSize = '15px'; el.style.textAlign = center ? 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Danni Beltz

Founder, Unboxed Living


  • Identity repair & reinvention

  • Nervous system regulation

  • Chronic pain & mind-body patterns


Helping you step out of survival roles and into who you actually are.

ABOUT DANNI

Hi friends, my name is Danni Beltz, a 32 year old being that had many evolutions in my
short amount of time on this earth.
I never knew I had a future without debilitating pain or mental health issues. The fact that I’m here whole and happier than ever is a testament that we can all get there. I searched my whole life for a path, and it took loads of grief to crack me open and guide me to my purpose. But my interest in healing didn’t come from academics alone; It came from living in a body that carried more than I understood. For over two decades I tried to navigate Western medicine while dealing with chronic inflammation and autoimmune pancreatitis. I followed every pathway offered. Doctors. Specialists. Tests. Medications, on top of other manifesting “diseases” piling up. Years of trying to piece myself back together in a system that only treated fragments.I’ve always been drawn to identity, attachment, and the hidden patterns that shape how we show up in relationships. That curiosity led me into the world of trauma, nervous system regulation, and eventually into becoming a future counselor. I’m currently in graduate school for Clinical Mental Health Counseling, deepening my understanding of how the mind, body, and past weave together to create the stories we live inside. My personal journey started the foundation of Unboxed Living.My work blends identity psychology, attachment theory, nervous system science, and energy awareness. I help people understand why they feel the way that they do and why their patterns make perfect sense. I help people who have lived in survival mode begin to meet themselves with compassion instead of confusion. This is not about fixing yourself.
It is about unlearning the roles you adopted to stay safe and returning to the version of you who never had the space to breathe.
If you’re here, you’re probably ready to understand yourself on a deeper level.
To feel safe again.
To reconnect with who you are beyond adaptation.
I’m honored to walk that journey with you.

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Choose the level of support that meets you exactly where you are.

CLARITY SESSION $150
A single 50-minute breakthrough session on Zoom to get you unstuck, calm your nervous system, and decode the root pattern you’re looping in. Perfect for quick clarity + immediate support.
THE RESET BUNDLE $399
Three 50-minute sessions on Zoom to help you step out of familiar emotional patterns and begin responding from a more grounded place. This bundle supports nervous system regulation and early identity shifts—ideal if you’re ready to stop repeating the same cycles and start creating new internal reference points.
THE REWIRE BUNDLE $849
Six weeks of gradual rewiring, subconscious shifts, and identity-level clarity. 6, 50-minute coaching sessions on Zoom, custom somatic + emotional release practices, message support between sessions
UNBOXED TRANSFORMATION $1500
This is the work of coming home to yourself. Twelve 50-minute Zoom sessions that help you unlearn survival identities, rewire long-standing patterns, and live with clarity and agency beyond the boxes you once needed to survive.This is when the identity shift happens.
PackagePriceSessionPrice/sessionWhat you getBest For
Clarity Sessions$1501$150Single deep-dive breakthrough, root-pattern decoding, clarity planImmediate clarity, emotional overwhelm, quick support
Mini Reset$3993$1223 Sessions, personalized nervous system ritual, weekly guidanceShort-term support, Stabilizing overwhelm, getting unstuck
Rewire Package$8496$141.506 Sessions, Somatic+ emotional release practices, message supportBreaking Loops, deep patterns, starting identity shifts
Unboxed transformation$1,50012$12512 Sessions, weekly rituals, full workbook accessFull nervous system + identity reinvention; best Value

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My masterclass is called Beyond the Frame: Understanding Why We Feel the Way That We Do. It is a 90-minute deep dive into trauma, identity, energy, and nervous system healing.Beyond the Frame is a guided masterclass designed to help you understand why you feel the way you do, without rushing, fixing, or forcing change. This experience is meant to be engaged at your own pace.
You’re invited to pause, return, and meet the material in the way that feels most supportive to you. The class blends accessible education with a gentle nervous system practice, offering insight into emotional patterns, embodiment, and integration. Nothing here asks you to become someone else. It’s an invitation to understand yourself with more clarity, safety, and compassion.
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Recommended Books That Changed My Life

The Surrender Experiment: My Journey into Life's Perfection

In The Surrender Experiment, Michael A. Singer tells the extraordinary story of what happened when, after a deep spiritual awakening, he decided to relinquish his personal fears and desires and simply let life unfold before him.

The Energy Codes: The 7-Step System to Awaken Your Spirit, Heal Your Body, and Live Your Best Life

Through surprising clinical cases, scientific reflections, and spiritual teachings, Chopra shows that healing is not just a physical process, but an inner transformation. From spontaneous disease remission to mind-guided cellular regeneration, Quantum Healing opens a new door to holistic wellness.

The Holographic Universe

In The Holographic Universe, Michael Talbot argues nothing less than that the universe is itself one giant hologram. Mr. Talbot thus explains out-of-body experiences, quantum-theory problems, the paranormal, and other unsolved riddles of brain and body.” — New York Times

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself

Becoming Supernatural draws on epigenetics, quantum physics & neuroscience research conducted at his advanced workshops since 2012 to explore how common people are doing, the uncommon to transform their consciousness.

A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose

In A New Earth, Eckhart Tolle explores the concept of transcending ego-based consciousness as a path to personal happiness and global harmony. The book begins by discussing the inherent dysfunction in humanity and proposes ways for readers to rise above it.

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Unlearn Your Pain By Dr. Howard Schubiner

Unlearn Your Pain, by Dr. Howard Schubiner, explains that most chronic pain (like migraines, back pain, fibromyalgia) isn't from tissue damage but from the brain creating learned neural pathways, a "Mind Body Syndrome" (MBS). The book offers a step-by-step program using neuroplasticity to reprogram these pathways through techniques like therapeutic writing, meditation, and understanding emotions, showing you can retrain your brain to stop chronic pain, even when traditional medicine fails.